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EI Myths in the workspace

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For decades emotional expression has been stigmatized in the workplace. The infamous “leave your emotions at the door” approach kept us apart, holding back, feeling like we cannot be ourselves fully.


Progress has been made, and in today’s professional landscape, emotions are actually welcomed. Leaders now understand that integrating emotional intelligence in decisions in the workplace, whether in recruiting new colleagues, addressing conflict or building stronger teams, leads to improved productivity and job satisfaction, enhanced communication and authentic connections among others.


We’ve certainly made progress, yet certain misconceptions about emotions endure in the workplace. Let’s examine three of these misunderstandings and replace them with facts.


Myth #1: You have to hide your true self at work


Due to the fear of judgment, conformity to norms, or the desire for acceptance, people may still restrain themselves from expressing their authentic selves in the workplace. There’s a concern that showing vulnerability or revealing personal information could affect professional reputation or hinder career advancement.


Truth: Being authentic about how we feel is essential for establishing meaningful connections with colleagues. This skill is crucial in the workplace, where transparent self-disclosure fosters trust, enhances collaboration, and promotes teamwork. It entails honestly expressing your feelings at work, such as happiness but also frustration, providing feedback to colleagues about the way you feel, and sharing emotions appropriately – considering timing, intensity, and the individuals involved.


Myth #2: Emotions make you appear a weak leader


Traditionally, professionalism dictated the exclusion of emotions from decision making, as they were viewed as weakening leadership and authority. However, recognizing emotions in decisions actually demonstrates empathy, resilience, and authentic leadership, challenging this misconception. 


Truth: Enhancing connections, promoting understanding, and improving decision-making are outcomes of emotional intelligence, showcasing strength, not weakness. Furthermore, leaders wield considerable influence in shaping a positive emotional culture, as their emotions serve as examples and have a contagious impact on the overall workplace atmosphere. Their ability to navigate and express emotions effectively sets the tone for the entire team, contributing to a more harmonious and productive work environment.


Myth #3: You shouldn’t talk about negative emotions


It’s a common belief that discussing negative emotions at work can disrupt or create tension. This perception often stems from the fear that open discussions about challenges or frustrations may lead to interpersonal conflicts or hinder team cohesion. However, this belief overlooks the potential benefits of addressing negative emotions, such as fostering transparency, building trust, and finding collective solutions. 


Truth: Authentic and impactful leadership requires acknowledging and navigating both positive and negative emotions. Despite attempts to suppress them, our moods and feelings influence our performance. Therefore, it’s crucial to embrace them fully and bring our whole selves to work, armed with confidence and self-awareness. Expressing negative emotions can enhance credibility, while vulnerability fosters genuine connections, ultimately leading to improved performance and innovation.


In conclusion, overcoming misconceptions about emotions in the workplace is crucial for fostering a healthier professional environment. Experiencing emotions is inherent to being human. And so embracing EI is essential for effective leadership and communication. 

Let’s challenge these misconceptions to create a workplace culture that values emotional well-being and authenticity!

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